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Ever since I was a little girl, I hoped that some day a Prince Charming will come into my life and we will live happily ever after. And he did! But the fairy tale has not quite started right away…

What I did not know was that between the first kiss and the “happily ever after” there are certain things a woman should learn in order to get that fairy tale rolling.

It can take months or years to discover them, so I thought I would just share this happy relationship secret with you, so that you guys do not waste your time and tears on something that would have never worked.

Back to the secret, here it is - the 5 Secret Rules a woman should follow in order to make her fairy tale happen:

Secret Rule #1:

Tell Him Compliments

They say women like compliments. What they do not say aloud is that men LOVE them. And there is nothing to be ashamed of! When it comes to compliments, we all go weak in the knees…

Where do you start? Well, I am sure your man is great, so there should be thousands of things you can compliment on. Just go with the flow and compliment on whatever he does!

Something simple like “You always make the best coffee, sweetie” or “What a great idea to park here!” wil be enough to light up your man’s face. And the best part, is that we actually think that, so basically you just need to say it aloud.

Not only the compliments will make your man happy, but they will also serve as a nice way to change your man’s behavior.

My husband used to be a heavy smoker, instead of nagging him about this habbit, I would just say: “You haven’t smoked for 4 hours, honey, wow, I did not know you had such a great will-power!”. And guess what? He would always last for another couple of hours without a cigarette to impress me, untill he finally kicked that habit!

Secret Rule #2:

Always, and I mean - ALWAYS support your man

No matter how crazy his ideas are, support your man. Wether it’s something small and insignificant (like a destination for a picnic) or something big (like his desire to change his career), you should always be there for him.

When my husband told me he wanted to quit his $120 per hour job, my first impulse was to freak out and make a scene. But I got my act together and listened to what he had to say. And guess what? Within a year he built a business which makes him happy and which brings us 5 times more than he used to make at his last job

!

The thing is that there are NO right or wrong choices, they are just choices, you will never know what’s best in a long run anyway. No matter what he decides to do, just believe that he can do it. It’s your support that makes it all possible! You know that every great man in history had a great woman by his side who truly believed in him. So, be one too!

Secret Rule #3:

Take a Good Care of Him

With all love and respect to men (and I DO mean it), they are not “designed” to take care of themselves. They forget to eat regularly, they forget to shower and change/wash/put away their clothes, they are so involved in doing more significant things that these little details just skip their attention.

Men might not say it, but they absolutely need our help organizing the household. Either by yourself or with hired help - it will be truly appreciated either way.

Secret Rule #4

Learn to Cook Something

I know, I know, there is plenty of restaurants and professional chefs who can cook anything you and your man like. But that’s not the point. Here is what is:

All men without exception like to eat well. My husband does, and I am sure your Prince Charming does too. And what makes your home (except for your beauty, of course) the best place to go back to from work is… a nice home prepared meal!

It can be something simple or you can cook only some part of it and order the rest from a restaurant (like I do :), but the whole “at home dinner” experience is something you two should definitely try! Your house will feel like “home” once you guys do it.

And the last, but not least:

Secret Rule #5

Always Stay Pretty and Sexy

Remember when you first started going out and you were trying to look your best every time he saw you? Just carry on doing it!

In general men feel happy just looking at a pretty woman, it’s how they are wired. So, just make sure you still are an eye-candy to your man. Try to look polished every time he comes through the door. Say “no” to old sweaty T-shirts, hair in a dull bun and a shiny face, opt for sexy robes and lingerie and it will definitely work!

And please do not underestimate sex and intimacy in long-term relationships - I saw many couples splitting over that. Just try to be as inspiring sex-wise as you used to be at the early stages of your relationship, or better yet, become even sexier! Strip dance classes in the gym did the trick for me!

Let’s face it - women know much more about how to
attract someone than men do.

Hey, it’s not our fault.  Women have YEARS of practice
at getting people to notice them!  They have lots of
experience with getting guys to like them.  In other
words: They’ve gone through the training!

If you’ve ever seen a guy get so bent out of shape over
a girl he liked, then you’ll know exactly what I mean
when I say…

WOMEN KNOW THE SECRETS OF ATTRACTION!

But the funny thing about attraction is that it cuts
both ways.  Men can actually learn these secrets too
and get great results with them.

So what are they?

SECRET 1:  Know What You Want

Too many guys suffer from the problem of having to
“take what they can get.”  Women tend to get a lot
of suitors coming their way, so they can be a little
bit more picky.

When you know what you’re looking for in a partner,
you’re not only screening potential candidates, but
you’re making a very powerful statement as well.

You’re showing that you’re not desperate.  That you
are the one with the power because you are doing the
judging.  And when you’re the one with the power,
you’re the one who must be pursued.

SECRET 2:  Be The Prize

Being the one pursued means that you have a certain
amount of value to others.  They want you, for some
reason, and it’s now their job to try and get you.

In order for this to happen, you must place a certain
value on yourself.  You must feel like you are worthy
to be pursued by others, and you must communicate this
fact with your actions and attitude.

Girls get lots of guys trying to impress them.  But
it’s the rare guy they want to impress who winds up
with them.

SECRET 3:  Dress To Impress

Women place a lot of importance on how they look.
It’s for this reason that many of them get the
male attention they do.

Women understand that what you wear helps to get
others to notice you.  In fact, because women are
so in-tune with fashion, they really tend to notice
how a guy dresses.

A man who understands how to cultivate his own
appearance and look good will get a lot of attention
from women, not just because he looks nice, but
because he’s communicating he understands how important
appearance is to them.

SECRET 4:  Smell Fantastic

All too often, men ignore the sense of smell.  They
don’t bother to put on cologne or after-shave.  But
women know that if you’re going to attract someone,
you need to appeal to all the senses.

Think about the perfumes women wear that drive you
wild and you’ll know just how important smelling
good can be.

Wearing a good cologne around a woman can do wonders
to make her aroused in your presence.

SECRET 5:  Be Interesting

Despite all the physical traits involved in attraction,
having nothing but good looks can wear thin quickly.
This is why it’s important to be interesting.

Being interesting equates to having something to talk
about that the person you are trying to attract can
relate to.

Being up to date on current events, pop culture, music,
gossip, and any number of things can help a woman
feel interested in spending time with you.

But in addition to knowing what to talk about, you
also have to be able to LISTEN and let the other
person relate to you.  After all, nothing is more
interesting than someone who is interested in you.

SECRET 6:  Do What’s Unexpected

Doing what is not expected of you can create an
air of excitement and uncertainty around you.  It
keeps people on their feet and attentive when around
you.

Of course, you shouldn’t be comical when doing the
unexpected, such as suddenly shouting out a curse word
or something ridiculous like that.

Instead, you have to play against expectations.  For
instance, instead of complimenting a girl on her looks,
compliment her on her intelligence.  She probably does
not get a lot of compliments like that, and it will
make you stand out.

Taking her out on a creative date, instead of your
typical dinner-and-a-movie is unexpected as well.

When you do what’s not expected of you, you keep excitement
alive.

SECRET 7:  Be Hot And Cold

Emotions are what must be stimulated to make attraction
work.  Without emotion, attraction is impossible.

But too much of one emotion is just as bad as a lack of
emotion.  Feeling good all the time or feeling bad all
the time causes us to stray from the person we are with.

When you alternate between hot and cold emotions, you
create an emotional roller coaster that keeps things
interesting and your partner interested.

Women do this all the time.  They will act very interested
and attracted to you, and make you feel good.  Then, they’ll
act like you’re not there and ignore you, and make you
feel bad.

This constant alternation of good and bad feelings
keeps their partner invested in them.  And men can
do this too.

SECRET 8:  Play Hard To Get

No one ever appreciates that which comes easily to
them.  Women know this better than anyone.  If they
are “too easy,” chances are the guy will leave them
after they’ve had their conquest.

The idea of playing hard to get makes the pursuer
emotionally invest themselves in the outcome of their
hunt.

By making a woman work for your affections, you are
getting her to commit to wanting to be with you.

SECRET 9:  Be Adventurous

Being adventurous is different from doing what’s
unexpected.  Adventure is about pushing boundaries
and doing things that are new and outside your
typical comfort zone.

Adventurous women intrigue men.  They make them
feel alive, and those good feelings become associated
with the girl.

But it works both ways.  An adventurous man will
easily sweep a girl off her feet.  He will make
her feel alive, and open up how she experiences
the world around her.

SECRET 10:  Use Your Sexuality

Women know that being sexual and using their sexuality
is a powerful tool in attracting men. But men typically
have no idea how to be sexual.

Men equate sexuality with women, because that’s how
they understand sex.  But men can be sexy too, and
being so will get women to become attracted just
as easily as men are.

The difference here is that in order for a man to
be sexy, he must ACT manly.  He must show the best
characteristics of what it is to be a man for the
woman to get turned on.

Using your sexuality as a man means being strong,
being brave, being aggressive, and allowing your
masculine energy to radiate from you.

The more you are able to use your sexuality, the
more women will respond to you.

How do I know this?  Simple:

WOMEN TELL ME THIS ALL THE TIME.

In my interview series The Secret Files, I sit
down with real women and pick their brains about
love, dating, sex, and pretty much anything else
I can think of.

And wouldn’t you know it?  Most of the time women
are more than happy to share their secrets with
me!

It’s like getting sneaky “insider information”
whenever I want.

And here’s the good news… I am opening up my
Secret Files series for YOU, so now you can learn
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After all - women KNOW about attraction.  Way more
than men do, at least.

And in the Secret Files, women are happy to SPILL
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In fact, if you’d like to hear a full 62 minute
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You’ve got nothing to lose.  Just go check out
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Talk soon,

Joseph Matthews
   

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What Quality Women Want in their Man

OK, now you know some great strategies on what to do on dates and you have the right mindset… but if you don’t show you’ve got what it takes to be with a quality woman, they’ll keep brushing you off, right? Painful…

So let’s look at the characteristics that quality women want in their man:

1. A leader / a confident man.

That’s why women love to see their man working or want to visit him at the office. They want to feel your power, your passion at work.

2. A man who truly appreciates her for who she is, who doesn’t want to change her, and who hears her out.

You need to be able to relate to her and her emotions and feelings. Too many men jump to the conclusion and try to offer a solution (as a gesture of love to help her) but they often don’t realize all she wants is to be heard and understood.

3. A man who knows who he is, and what he wants.

This is especially important as she may judge the strength of the relationship and test your love to see if she’s really that special to you.

4. An ambitious man.

You don’t have to have a great job / situation, but you need to show passion, dedication, and commitment to a certain goal. She should be a very important part in your life, but she shouldn’t be the sole purpose for you living. Several years ago, I had the wrong mental frame of thinking all I want to do is to be with a beautiful girl and this gives her too much power and suffocates her. Your passion / job / mission should be your primary reason for existence. One test women will use is whether you absolutely want a relationship right now. The correct answer to that is something along the lines of: “I don’t need a relationship right now, I’m very focused on my career/passion and have a great, exciting life… but I feel I would love to share it with someone special — but I’m in no rush to meet her right away, I want to make sure it’s the right person” What does this subcommunicate and why is it very effective in making you attractive?

Here are the key reasons:

- You don’t show desperation: you don’t need a relationship right now
- Yet you show intent: I would like a special partner in my life
- You show selectivity: “someone special”, not just anybody
- You show strength & achievement: perfectly happy right now and have an exciting life
- You show ambition: focus on career/passion but also want someone exceptional to join you

5. A passionate man who enjoys life and live it to the fullest (and who wants her to join him on an exciting adventure).

Women love passion and adventure and they want to be led. They love to jump into a man’s world and be taken on a ride — interpret this in as many ways as you wish

6. A masculine man who allows her to be feminine and surrender to him, in the bedroom and in public.

In today’s society, lots of professional women feel like they have to behave like men in order to be successful at work. When they come home, they want to relax and feel feminine and be able to just surrender to their man. So they want a strong man when they’re not working when you guys just hang out or are in a more intimate setting making love.

7. A man who makes her feel safe, secure, and comfortable at all times.

It’s not only about trust, it’s about you taking care of her and making sure she’s comfortable. It’s about “being the provider” part of the man that women look for in their perfect partner.

8. A man with a sense of humor, who can make her laugh, be playful, and surprise her.

Let’s face it, today’s world is chaotic, challenging, and even depressing at times. Does she want to have that experience with you? Absolutely not! She wants you to bring her to a world that is fun, light, refreshing, seductive, playful… like when you guys were children unaware of all of today’s worries and problems. Of course I’m not suggesting that you always be like that. It’s important that you be able to share your challenges with your partner and be able to be real discussing them with her. What I’m suggesting is that you regularly sprinkle humor, fun, and happiness in her life (and yours!).

9. A nice & naughty mix of a gentleman who opens doors for her and the bad boy who’s passionate and naughty in the bedroom (or outside!).

She may never admit this to you but this is exactly what she talks about with her girlfriends all the time behind closed doors. It’s rare the man who possesses this unique combination of a gentleman and bad boy. She craves both, but way too often she can only have one. Or if she’s unfaithful she has both, but it’s two different people (you embracing both men in your body is the best way to keep her faithful by the way!). Practically speaking, what does this mean? In public (think with her family, friends, coworkers), be the gentleman who opens doors for her, cares for her by making sure she’s comfortable at all times, and is very thoughtful and respectful all the time. In private, espouse some of the bad boys characteristics while still being thoughtful, respectful, and loving. This may include spanking her or pulling her hair while having passionate sex, doing naughty things in semi public locations, and teasing her by not immediately doing what she asks you to do.

10. A man who takes care of himself.

You don’t need to have fashion model looks but you can take of yourself by looking nice, smelling good, working out, and taking care of your body and appearance the same way she does (well, maybe a bit less unless you’re totally metro!). This will also increase your confidence and make you feel important by treating yourself nicely.

OK, by now you know what quality women want, you have the right mindset, and you know what to do on dates… is there any reason why you can’t attract the woman of your dreams? If so, I’d like to hear it so email me (support@dateandlounge.com) with what your challenges are. I have a lot of dating experience in many different contexts with a wide variety of women. I don’t have every answer, but I can definitely help you tremendously.

I will respond to every question I get. I will also choose select people every week to get a complimentary Phone Session where we will review your challenges together and set you on the right path to attract the woman of your dreams. No more getting stuck!

Get those emails coming and let me know what challenges you’ve been facing so far.

To your success with women!

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So, let’s start. I have written before that online dating is really easy!

But you should be self confident and ready to spend some time on it but you won’t be disappointed.

The first step.

Visit http://google.com/ and enter something like this “online dating”. Oh, great! Thousands of sites where you can find any babe you want. Surf some of these sites and choose the one you like more and where you feel calm and happy.

The second step.

We have chosen a dating site so we can register and fill you profile. Write only true facts about yourself and post you real photos!!! I’m not a handsome guy (a bit later, perhaps, I will post my photo) but still I always meet smart beauties and they love me as i am frank. Remember, your main target to meet her offline and it will be a bit confusing if your appearance is not the same as in you profile. Don’t be shy and do not hesitate to write about your hobbies. But one thing, do not fill your phone number. In my next article, I will explain you in details how to fill your profile to be a success.

The third step.

We are registered now. So there are two ways:

1. just wait when a sexy babe finds your portfile and writes down to you

2. find this sexy babe. I

hate waiting so usually it’s me who starts. You should know exactly who you are looking for. It’s useless to send “hello massages” to every girl registered on a website. It does not matter if you want to find a blonde teen or a brunette milf lady. As for me I love different girls so every time I’m looking for something new. Every dating site has a search system which will help you to find a girl according to your parameters. Just fill the gaps and click a “search” button. Wow, such a great deal of horny babes just waiting for you! But don’t be in a hurry, i advise you to sort the results according to the date of registration. Choose those who were registered a week or two weeks ago. Believe me it the best audience, don’t choose those who were just registered unless you really feel that she is your fate and you can not live without her

The fourth step.

Now we are ready to send the first message. Never send short “hello” messages with one or two words, it’s the easiest way to receive no answer. Look at her photo and read her portfile, imagine that she is next to you and write something outstanding. As for me I prefer to write a few words about her appearance and how we can spend time together (it will help you to make her answer your letter). Don’t write much about yourself, leave it for her to ask you. Send several letters to girls you have found and wait for their replies. I can say that I receive 3 answers to 7 letters. My result is average as I am not a dandy. Perhaps you will have better results.

The fifth step.

Now you know very much (for me it’s 5-7 letters) about your date and ready to invite her to meet. Of course, if she lives in your town (that’s why you’d better to search for babes from your region if you want to spend sweet hours with your online date in offline). And it’s the most important thing how to write about it correctly and move your relations on a new level…

This step needs more time, so read about it in my next article.